Fun Date Ideas for the Weekend

Hit the thrift store and pull out your craft supplies, because it’s about to get…ugly?! Yup, you read that right! Get some plain sweaters and decorate them into the best, ugly holiday sweaters you’ve ever seen! When you’re done, set up your camera, strike a pose, and document all the silliness.

And you never know…maybe that silly photoshoot will turn into something much more sexy 💋

Memories are the best gifts!

In the past, we’ve talked about how foreplay starts outside of the bedroom and the importance of going on special dates with your partner. Well last week, when we were putting together the Holiday Gift Guide (sign up for the newsletter at the bottom of the page so you don’t miss out!), we couldn’t help but think about the special “gifts” that can’t be wrapped. The quality time, the fun experiences, the effort you put in to make their day special – it’s those little things that make the greatest gifts.

This week, we want to share with you date ideas – some fun, some romantic – that will surely make your holiday’s more memorable (and sensual 😉)

Sugar, Spice, and Everything Nice (or Naughty?)

Get your butts into the kitchen because it’s time for the Cookie Bakeoff! Each of you will choose a cookie recipe to follow and let the fun begin. Be ready for flour fights, spatula spanks, licking dough off each other, and any other debauchery that may occur.

Warning: the kitchen may get very hot 🔥

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Make a Difference

On a serious note, there’s something that’s incredibly special about giving back to the community together. Volunteering at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter is a wonderful way to not only help others, but also realize the true meaning of the holiday season. Or you could “adopt a child” through a local organization, where they give you a child’s gift list to fulfill. How special would it be to go shopping together, picking out toys for that child, and imagining their face when they open their gifts!

There are ton’s of different ways to give back during the holiday season (and throughout the year) that we hope you will consider doing with your partner!

Toasty and Toasted

​Grab some blankets and get ready! We are going classic with a blanket-fort-and-movie-night. Cuddle up under your fort, indulge in your favorite adult drinks, and watch that holiday movie you’ve seen a million times.
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Yes, we suggest a movie you’ve already seen because you never know when the fort will become a little too toasty to handle and you’ll stop paying attention to what’s on the TV 😜

Silly or Sexy?

No, we aren’t talking about the classic Hallmark where you just sign your name at the bottom and stick it in an envelope. Instead, pick out a pretty, BLANK card or make your own! The power of a handwritten card comes in the personal message from your heart to theirs. So don’t let Hallmark do the talking – this time it’s your turn to shine! Write a heartfelt love note to your partner, sharing everything you love about them and how grateful you are. Trust us, it will be 10x more powerful than any card you could get with a message already in it.

Nail ‘Em!

It’s a classic that everyone should do in their lifetime…a snowball fight!! Now we know not everyone has snow outside, so that’s where an indoor snowball kit comes in. Yup, they seriously make these, just look on Amazon 😜 It might not be the real thing, but you can’t tell me it wouldn’t be fun to toss fuzzy “snowballs” at each other, ducking behind furniture, and laughing hysterically as you competitive sides come out!

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​Another subscription we love is The Adventure Challenge‘s monthly date box! Every month, they will send you a memorable date, all put together in a little box. Each monthly box includes exclusive & curated items to upgrade every adventure to a more premium experience. If you are the type of person who loves dates, but never knows what to do, this is the perfect solution, and a wonderful gift to give.

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And of course, if you want to give your partner the ultimate gift, sign up for our Learn to Give Sensual & Tantric Lingam Massage course. In this course, I walk you through how to give a mind-blowing, intimate, tantric lingam massage. This course includes written instructions (narrative option available), demonstrative videos, downloadable worksheets, mindfulness exercises, intimate videos demonstrating techniques, and guided-audio for you to listen to while giving your partner a sensual massage. I have filled this course with every technique and tip that I know, because I wanted to give you as much guidance as possible, so that you and your partner can experience the benefits of sensual lingam massage.

​xoxo,

Kate