Creative Gifts for your Lover

Love Journal

Not only is this a beautiful gift to give your partner – and yourself – but it lasts far longer than a single day. First, head to your local store (just about anywhere will do). Choose a beautiful journal or blank notebook that you can decorate with your partner. Write a love letter on the first page, wrap it up and give it to them at that special moment. Explain the following instructions so you both know what the intentions are.

Use the journal as communication journal focused on your love. In the journal, write something nice for your partner to read. Then leave it on your partner’s nightstand. It’s their turn to read your entry and write one for you. You can write love notes to each other, talk about your fantasies, re-tell a story like how you felt after you were first intimate with them or maybe your favorite sex story. You can also write about sex toys, your favorite sexual activities, which things you’d like to try and if you have any apprehensions about them. Write about what makes you feel sexy or share what you find attractive about your partner. This journal is yours, so you and your partner can decide what you want to put in it!

Favorite Things

​Write a list of your partners favorite things! Favorite drink, favorite snack, favorite candy, movie genre, board game, magazine, music, etc. Do they love comfy socks or soft blankets? Are they obsessed with a sports team or characters in a movie? Ideally you want to make a list of every little thing that your partner loves and would brighten their day. With this list in mind, head off to the store and make a basket full of their favorite things. It will surely make them smile, feel loved, and seen by you!

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Food is a Love Language

​You may have heard of the 5 Love Languages, but I think they are missing a sixth one; food! Nothing says “I love you” more than pouring your heart into a home-cooked meal or dessert. Once again consider your partner’s favorite foods and things they love. Use Google or Pinterest to find a yummy recipe for dinner, your partner’s favorite type of dessert, and/or a new cocktail you think they’d love. Grab the ingredients from the store and get cooking…or baking…or mixing. You get the idea! 😜 If you’re not the best cook, that’s ok! This is really about the effort and doing something nice for your partner, so just do your best, and have fun with it.

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Polaroid Camera

​This is really a two-part gift that you’ll both enjoy! First, head to the store and buy one of those polaroid-like cameras. Walmart has a mini one for just under $60 and it comes with some film, although you may want to grab a little more. Wrap it up and gift it to your partner!
Part two: pick out what you want your partner to wear (if anything 😉 ) and put that camera to use! Pose them in your favorite sexy positions and snap a shot. Encourage your partner throughout your mini photoshoot, telling them how amazing they look and how excited you are getting while they pose for you.

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Don’t Underestimate the Power of a Card

No, we aren’t talking about the classic Hallmark where you just sign your name at the bottom and stick it in an envelope. Instead, pick out a pretty, BLANK card or make your own! The power of a handwritten card comes in the personal message from your heart to theirs. So don’t let Hallmark do the talking – this time it’s your turn to shine! Write a heartfelt love note to your partner, sharing everything you love about them and how grateful you are. Trust us, it will be 10x more powerful than any card you could get with a message already in it.

Bonus

While these next options aren’t “in store,” they are very easy to get and are perfect for any last minute gift hunting.
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Subscriptions are an amazing gift because its a gift that keeps on coming! Instead of getting flowers for just one day, talk to your local florist about a subscription. Most places offer monthly or quarterly flower subscriptions, which means your gift of flowers will brighten your partner’s day throughout the entire year!
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​Another subscription we love is The Adventure Challenge‘s monthly date box! Every month, they will send you a memorable date, all put together in a little box. Each monthly box includes exclusive & curated items to upgrade every adventure to a more premium experience. If you are the type of person who loves dates, but never knows what to do, this is the perfect solution, and a wonderful gift to give.

You can also use the code WELOVE for a little discount 🙂​
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And of course, if you want to give your partner the ultimate gift, sign up for our Learn to Give Sensual & Tantric Lingam Massage course. In this course, I walk you through how to give a mind-blowing, intimate, tantric lingam massage. This course includes written instructions (narrative option available), demonstrative videos, downloadable worksheets, mindfulness exercises, intimate videos demonstrating techniques, and guided-audio for you to listen to while giving your partner a sensual massage. I have filled this course with every technique and tip that I know, because I wanted to give you as much guidance as possible, so that you and your partner can experience the benefits of sensual lingam massage.

​xoxo,

Kate