Where to Meet Swingers in YOUR City and State

Tips for Success on Swinger Sites

Be sure to use HIGH QUALITY photos. We have passed on a massive majority of profiles because they were taken in a messy bathroom, used bad lighting, or the people weren’t dressed well. Hire a boudoir photographer or shoot with tons of natural light in your best lingerie and spend some time on your profile if you want responses from people who have nice-looking profiles. They will require a great profile and pictures if that’s what they have on theirs. Before you dive deep into swinging, be sure to read our guide on getting started swinging for the best experience possible.

See How It’s Done

Before you dive deep into swinging, be sure to read our guide on getting started swinging for the best experience possible. To give you a view into what this actually looks like behind closed doors, Kate and I documented our ENTIRE swinging experience with aa new couple, from discussing boundaries to likes and dislikes, to the actual sex. We tried some new things and it was beautiful. One disclaimer is that we exchanged STD results and discussed protection prior to the meet, which we went without due to special circumstances and because we were recording. In real life, use protection!!! Other than that, it’s a real and authentic view of swinging. You can see the full video including boundaries discussion and orgy at our OnlyFans, under the “swinging” category. There’s also a few 3-ways including MMF and FFM for your enjoyment 🙂

Best Cities / States for Swingers

The cities with the highest numbers of swingers are as follows (no particular order): 

– Phoenix, AZ

– Los Angeles, CA | San Diego, CA

– Denver, CO

– Atlanta, GA

– Indianapolis, IN

– Las Vegas, NV

– San Antonio, TX | Dallas, TX | Houston, TX | Austin, TX | Fort Worth, TX (whoa, Texans are horny!)

– Virginia Beach, VA

– Seattle, WA

– Charleston, WV

– Milwaukee, WI

Worst Cities / States for Swinging

The cities with the lowest numbers of swingers are as follows (no particular order): 

– Manchester, NJ

– Fargo, ND

– Providence, RI

– Sioux Falls, SD

– Burlington, VT

– Charleston, SC

– Albuquerque, NM

– Manchester, NH

– Jackson, MS

– Detroit, MI

– Wilmington, DE

– Portland, ME

– Wichita, KS

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​Much Love,

Chris

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